It is nothing wrong with having standards, even though some may try to make you think otherwise. If you know what you bring to the table, why should you settle for nonsense? A good woman should want a good man and vice versa. People try to make you think that being single is a curse, but personally, I rather be single than be with someone that can't comprehend my worth. You and your partner have to be on the same page. You can't be into church and they are still "turning up" in the club. It won't work. Be patient and wait on the right one. The bible says he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from The Lord ( Proverbs 18:22). And take note that the scripture says "HE who finds a WIFE" not SHE who finds HIM. Ladies don't be desperate, please. Desperate people take whatever they can get....don't be that woman.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20

 

¹⁹ Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; ²⁰ you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.