Embracing truth

I think people hide behind  "Judge not, that ye be not judged.For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?" Matthew CH 7:1-3. Telling the truth and being judgmental are two different things. The bible says Galatians 6:1-2  Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. I am a saved woman and I love The Lord with all of my being but I mess up sometimes and I see nothing wrong with my brother or sister in Christ correcting me. Talking about and talking to someone is not the same. We have to stop being so sensitive and learn to embrace truth. No one wants the truth anymore, but a watered down version of what is really going on. Why is that?